Still Managing the Toy Instead of Feeling the Sex? You know the moment. You're in your body. The rhythm is right. And then — the hum. That mechanical buzz that pulls you straight into your head. THE PROBLEM: Most couples vibrators announce themselves the entire time. They work, technically. But they kill presence. THE GAP: Most women need direct clitoral stimulation to come during penetration. If the tool that's supposed to help keeps interrupting — what's the point? THE FIX: The new RingMate...
6 days ago • 1 min read
Penetration Isn't Delivering? Here's What Your Body Actually Needs. 🍋 If you're present during sex but internal sensation feels distant or flat — that's your body telling you it needs a warm-up, not more pressure. Internal tissue responds to heat, breath, and blood flow. Skip that, and penetration lands in a body that isn't ready to feel it. Week 9 of 365 Days of Orgasms fixes that. A 7-day practice that builds internal sensation from the outside in — so when penetration happens, your body is...
27 days ago • 1 min read
How to Make Clitoral Stimulation Feel New Again Most people treat clitoral pleasure like a button. Press.Stimulate.Finish. But the body doesn’t respond to just one kind of sensation. It responds to variation. And when you only use one type — especially intense, pinpoint stimulation — pleasure can start to feel predictable. Or worse… fall flat and tank her libido. This week inside 365 Days of Orgasms, we’re exploring three external stimulation styles that can ignite her arousal system in very...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Does She Want a Threesome for Valentines Day? A third could be just what she wants for Valentintes Day. Here's what you need to know. It's true, lots of women fantasize about threesomes. All kinds of threesomes, but very few feel comfortable enough to talk about it, much less seek one out. I've put together a full guide to talking about, planning, and excecuting the perfect threesome. And what better time to give it a go than Valentine's Day. So starte here. ⬇️ ❤️But first! Make sure you have...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
If you’ve ever touched her breasts and thought “this should feel good…”but it didn’t, fell flat, or felt awkward — you’re not alone. I just dropped a brand-new episode of Talk Sex with Annette breaking down the 9 ways most people skip when touching breasts, and why they matter more than intensity or enthusiasm. This isn’t about tricks — it’s about how her body actually responds to sensation, timing, and presence. 🎧 Watch or read the full video now: 9 Ways to Touch Her Breasts Most Guys Skip 🎧...
about 1 month ago • 2 min read
Most Valentine’s Day gifts fail for one reason: They put pressure on the night instead of creating pleasure. If you’ve ever worried about buying the wrong toy, making things awkward, or killing the mood before it even starts—this is for you. I’ve already done the testing, filtering, and overthinking. Here are the no-fail pleasure upgrades I recommend because they work, even when nerves are high: Hello Nancy: Lem Clitoral Massager Fast, intuitive, and fun. No instructions. No intimidation....
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
Is Your Size Holding You Back? A lot of men believe great sex starts and ends with penis size. And when they don’t measure up (in their head or on a ruler), confidence tanks… sex turns into pressure… and desire quietly dies. That’s the real problem? Not size. 🎙️ This week on Talk Sex with Annette, I brought back my most-listened-to episode ever:The Truth About Sex with Smaller Penises — Part 2. Three women. Three age ranges. Real experiences. And the same truth came up again and again:...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
3 Sex Positions That Actually Help Female Orgasms Most orgasm struggles aren’t about effort—they’re about positioning.In this video, I break down three positions that actually support female orgasms by working with anatomy, arousal, and clitoral stimulation instead of fighting them. ❤️ Watch, try one, and feel the difference. Valentine’s Day Gifts That Work With Her Arousal Intentional gifts for deeper arousal and easier orgasms. Click Here For My Guide Here are some of my favorite items for...
about 2 months ago • 1 min read
Want More Sex & Orgasms This Year? Come With Me. What if this was the year you stopped hoping desire would show up—and started inviting it in? Not with pressure.Not with fixing yourself.But with small, intentional practices that teach your body how to feel pleasure again. That’s what 365 Days of Orgasms is—and I’d love for you to join me. It’s a pleasure resolution designed to help you have more sex, more orgasms, and more reliable desire in 2026 by working with your nervous system instead of...
2 months ago • 2 min read