🧨 When Sex Starts to Feel Like Work... You know that moment when you realize sex has become another thing to manage? You’re thinking about what’s supposed to happen next instead of what’s actually happening right now. That’s the quiet burnout no one talks about — when desire turns into duty. So let’s fix that. The Real Problem Most couples don’t fall out of love — they fall out of sync. One person’s guessing what feels good. The other’s tired of having to explain. When routine or distance...
2 days ago • 2 min read
The Oral Sex Mistake That Makes You Forgettable In my latest podcast episode, I reveal the one mistake men make during oral intimacy that instantly makes them forgettable. Spoiler: it’s not your stamina or tongue tricks—it’s something deeper. Here’s what you’ll learn when you hit play: 🔥 The “routine move” that kills her desire instantly—and how to swap it for something she’ll obsess over 🔥 Why that rapid-fire “lizard flick” from porn is actually ruining her arousal (and what to do instead) 🔥...
about 2 months ago • 2 min read
3 Moves That’ll Make This Labor Day Weekend Unforgettable …and the toy sales that guarantee longer, hotter orgasms. Happy Labor Day Weekend! Labor Day isn’t about burgers and beer—it’s about giving your body something unforgettable. I don’t want rest this weekend. I want sweat, tangled sheets, and that slow-burn ache you feel when you’ve been teased, kissed, and f*cked until Tuesday. That’s why I’m giving you 3 of my dirtiest, most delicious moves—and pairing each one with the toys (all on...
2 months ago • 2 min read
The Threesome Talk You Actually Need Let’s be honest. The idea of a threesome is hot—until you realize how badly it can go if you don’t plan it right. If you’ve ever thought: “I don’t want it to get awkward,” “What if someone gets jealous?” or “Where do we even find a third?” This one’s for you. 👇 In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down: ✔️ What makes a threesome work (and what instantly kills the vibe) ✔️ Green flags and red flags when choosing a third ✔️ Good vs. terrible reasons to open...
3 months ago • 2 min read
he Ultimate Hand Job Guide: Are You Doing It Right? Your hands are more powerful than you think—when you know how to use them. Most people treat hand jobs like a warm-up act. But the truth? They can be more intimate, dominant, and mind-blowing than penetration or oral—if you know what you're doing. If you’ve ever thought: “I don’t know if I’m doing it right,” “I get bored halfway through,” or “Isn’t this just… basic?” Then it’s time to learn how to turn your hands into the most erotic tool...
3 months ago • 2 min read
Cowgirl Sex Position: How to Ride with Confidence and Make It Unforgettable Let’s get one thing straight:The cowgirl sex position isn’t just a break for him—it’s your power move. It’s one of the most orgasmic, confidence-building positions for you—especially when you know how to ride for your own pleasure. If you’ve ever thought: “Cowgirl feels awkward,” “My thighs give out,” or “I don’t even finish that way…” You’ve never been taught how to ride like you own it. That changes today. In this...
4 months ago • 2 min read
Most Men Finish Too Fast—Here’s How to Be the Exception Let me guess: you start off strong, things are getting steamy, she’s moaning—and then… it’s over. Fast. Too fast. Whether it’s nerves, lack of control, or excitement, finishing sooner than you’d like isn’t just frustrating—it can make you question your confidence in bed. But here's the truth: You don’t need to last forever. You just need to last long enough to build the kind of tension, and connection that drives her wild. In one of my...
4 months ago • 2 min read
Red, White & Lube Me Up: The Best Sex Toy Sales of the Weekend Sure, fireworks are fun. But you know what gets me hot on a holiday weekend? A damn good sale on sexy toys, products and apparel that actually make me see stars. Whether you're solo, partnered, or playing with your situationship in the sheets, these are the brands I trust when I want explosive pleasure—and they’re all offering deep, dirty discounts right now. Here’s where I’m shopping this weekend (and yes, I’ve linked some of my...
4 months ago • 4 min read
Most People Get Spanking Wrong—Here’s How to Make It Hot Let’s talk about spanking—the kind that makes her arch, gasp, and flinch the next day (with a smile). Most people? Doing it wrong.Too soft. Too hard. Way too awkward. Trust me, I’ve been there:The timid tappers.The over-eager assaulters.The guy who went from zero to ouch so fast I reconsidered my life choices. So, I took matters into my own hands—literally.I studied the technique, the psychology, the science. I practiced.And now I’m...
4 months ago • 2 min read