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Published about 1 month ago • 4 min read
Two Guides Your Sex Ed Class Would Never Touch. I Will.
This week I'm covering two topics that most people carry silently. One out of worry, one out of shame. Neither deserves the silence.
NEW: Is My Vagina Normal? An Expert Finally Answers.
Almost every woman has wondered: Is my scent normal? Do I taste okay? Is something wrong with me down there? And almost none of us were ever given the information to answer those questions. So the worry follows us right into the bedroom, where it quietly steals our confidence and our pleasure.
I sat down with Wendy Strgar, vaginal microbiome expert, founder of Good Clean Love, and we covered everything nobody told you:
→ Your scent and taste are driven by pH, not hygiene When your microbiome is in balance, your natural scent reads as a turn-on, not something to hide.
→ BV and yeast infections are almost opposites And they're constantly misdiagnosed. BV is bacterial overgrowth from high pH. Yeast is fungal. Treating one can trigger the other.
→ Your vagina is your other face Treat it like a skincare routine. Ongoing maintenance, not emergency-only.
→ Partners: this is your business too Unprotected sex introduces alkaline semen that raises pH. Men can carry infections without symptoms and pass them on. The sexiest sex is clean sex.
60% of people have fantasized about DP. 22% fantasize about it often. If this has been quietly living in your head, you are in extremely good company.
It's not as "extreme" as porn makes it to be. Here's why so many people crave it and a simple approach. Watch the video and read my guide.
→ The Anatomy The vaginal and anal canals are separated by a thin wall. Fill both and you physically sandwich the G-spot and internal clitoris between them, pressed harder than single penetration ever could.
→ The Psychology Being that full floods your nervous system so completely there's no bandwidth left for mental noise. DP overwhelms your mind into silence. That's where the biggest orgasms live.
→ The Staircase You don't start at three people. You start alone.
Level 1: Solo. Settle a plug in the back. Add a vaginal toy. Learn your own map first.
Level 2: Partner + toy. One partner provides one point. A toy provides the other. The We-Vibe Ditto+ stays seated on its own and comes with a remote. Hand it to your partner while they handle the front.
Level 3: Three people. Advanced. Lives or dies on communication, setup, and aftercare. The receiver runs the entire show.
ON ONLYFANS THIS WEEK: How to Add Fingers Right for That Full, Hot Feeling
This is the hands-on demo version. I'm showing you exactly how to add fingers, yours or a partner's, with consent, consistency, rhythm, and communication. This video combines how-to techniques I've been sharing over the past year.
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