Most People Get Spanking Wrong—Here’s How to Make It Hot

Let’s talk about spanking—the kind that makes her arch, gasp, and flinch the next day (with a smile).

Most people? Doing it wrong.
Too soft. Too hard. Way too awkward.

Trust me, I’ve been there:
The timid tappers.
The over-eager assaulters.
The guy who went from zero to ouch so fast I reconsidered my life choices.

So, I took matters into my own hands—literally.
I studied the technique, the psychology, the science. I practiced.
And now I’m teaching you how to spank like you actually know what you’re doing.

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You'll learn:

• Where to spank (and where NOT to)
• How to warm her up before your hand even lands
• My favorite positions for arousal and surrender
• And the real reason women crave this kind of touch

This isn’t just about impact.
It’s about erotic rhythm, consent, anticipation—and how to turn her on with your palm alone.

Cheers!💋
Annette

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I wasn’t always a spanking lover.
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Let’s make sex hotter.​
Cheers!
Annette 💋

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