In my latest podcast episode, I reveal the one mistake men make during oral intimacy that instantly makes them forgettable. Spoiler: it’s not your stamina or tongue tricks—it’s something deeper.
Here’s what you’ll learn when you hit play: 🔥 The “routine move” that kills her desire instantly—and how to swap it for something she’ll obsess over 🔥 Why that rapid-fire “lizard flick” from porn is actually ruining her arousal (and what to do instead) 🔥 The secret way to use your hands during oral so you can literally feel how close she is to climax 🔥 The post-climax mistake men make that kills the vibe—and the game-changing trick that keeps her begging for more
Don’t just listen—practice. These are the tools I personally recommend to help you ditch performance and make oral unforgettable:
Want to actually practice what I’m teaching? These are my favorite toys and lubes that make oral sex unforgettable:
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​Oh My Gem by Blush® (Amethyst) – Oral isn’t just about the outside. This warming G-spot vibrator adds an irresistible layer when paired with oral sex, creating blended stimulation that takes her over the edge. With rumbly vibrations and a curved design that hits just right, it’s the perfect tool to turn good oral into unforgettable oral. Get 20% off with code ANNETTE20.’
​O​h My Gem by Blush® (Tanzanite)– Want to level up oral sex without burning out your tongue? This warming clitoral vibrator mimics the feel of a real tongue with rumbly vibrations and heat that increases blood flow and sensation. Pair it with your mouth and she’l. l swear you’ve got superpowersGet 20% off with code ANNETTE20
​We-Vibe Touch X – A small, powerful vibe that syncs perfectly with your mouth. Double the sensation, no guesswork. (Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off)
​Womanizer Enhance – Air pulsation plus vibration that mimics suction. Pair it with your tongue and she won’t know what hit her. (Use code EXPLORES15 to save 15%.)
​Wicked Butterscotch Lube – Sweet, silky, and playful, this flavored water-based lube turns oral sex into dessert. No stickiness, no weird aftertaste—just pure fun. (Use code EXPLORES15 for 15% off)
​pjur Aqua Lube – Clean, silky, and body-safe, this water-based lube keeps things smooth for marathon oral sex sessions. Zero stickiness, zero distractions—just glide and connection.
Remember:​ Oral intimacy isn’t about performance—it’s about presence. And when you get this right? She won’t just remember the act. She’ll remember you.
Cheers, Annette xx đź’‹
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