Let’s be honest. The idea of a threesome is hot—until you realize how badly it can go if you don’t plan it right.
If you’ve ever thought: “I don’t want it to get awkward,” “What if someone gets jealous?” or “Where do we even find a third?”
This one’s for you.
👇 In this week’s episode, I’m breaking down: ✔️ What makes a threesome work (and what instantly kills the vibe) ✔️ Green flags and red flags when choosing a third ✔️ Good vs. terrible reasons to open your bedroom ✔️ Boundaries that keep things sexy—not messy ✔️ The #1 question to ask before anything happens
It's no secret. I've had my fair share of hot (and not so hot) threesomes. I'm going to be honest, I'd never come to a threesome with out at least a couple of toys on hand, to both help and heat things up.
This is the first time I've shared what's in my bag of tricks whether I'm coming to a threesome as part of a couple or as the third. So consider this your exclusive insider tip:
My Threesome Toolkit
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Your Challenge: If you’re fantasizing about a threesome, ask each other: What do we actually want from this experience? And what do we need to feel safe and turned on?
Because great sex starts with great communication—and that includes the wild stuff.
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