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How to Make Clitoral Stimulation Feel New Again

Most people treat clitoral pleasure like a button.

Press.
Stimulate.
Finish.

But the body doesn’t respond to just one kind of sensation.

It responds to variation.

And when you only use one type — especially intense, pinpoint stimulation — pleasure can start to feel predictable.

Or worse… fall flat and tank her libido.

This week inside 365 Days of Orgasms, we’re exploring three external stimulation styles that can ignite her arousal system in very different ways and fire up her sex drive in new ways.

Because when she knows what kind of sensation her body leans into, pleasure stops feeling repetitive and starts feeling responsive.

Here’s what we’re playing with:

Air-Based Sensation

Focused. Activating. Intense.

For some bodies, it’s immediate and powerful. For others, it’s best in shorter waves with intentional pacing.

Used consciously, this kind of stimulation can teach you how your body handles intensity.

The LEM by Hello Nancy is excellent for exploring this without overwhelming yourself.

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Rhythmic / Tapping Patterns

Sometimes bodies don’t want more intensity.
They want rhythm.

Pattern keeps the body engaged without constant pressure.
This is incredible for edging — staying in the build instead of racing to the end.

The Berri Edging Clitoral Stimulator by Hello Nancy works beautifully here because it allows you to feel pacing instead of just power.

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Broad, Indirect Vibration

Not everyone enjoys pinpoint focus all of the time.

Some bodies relax more with sensation that spreads instead of concentrates.

If intensity has ever felt overwhelming, broad vibration can feel grounding and supportive instead of sharp.

The Double Vibe by Le Wand is perfect for this style — especially if your body opens more with diffusion than direct pressure.

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Keep up with 365 Days of Orgasms here. Watch the video below and see how these products work to reignite her pleausre.

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