I came in under 10 minutes. That's fast for me.


Her Body Doesn't Always Want Slow. Here's What It Wants Instead.

Some nights she wants the long build. The edging. The patience. And some nights — most nights, honestly — her body already knows exactly where it's going and it needs something that can keep up.

Stress. Perimenopause. Medication. A brain running twelve tabs at once. Sometimes her body needs more intensity to get there, not less. And the toy that tiptoes around that fact is the toy that ends up in the drawer.

The Avo Clitoral Stimulator, by Hello Nancy, doesn't tiptoe.

Here's how to work with her body when it wants power, not patience.

→ How to Use Intensity Without Skipping the Good Part Start at the lowest setting. Stay longer than you think. Let the suction sit gently over the clitoris — don't press, don't chase. Lighter pressure feels better. Let yourself swell and wake up. Then climb. Three intensities, each one a real jump. By the third, it's reaching the entire clitoral structure — not just the surface.

→ Find Your Pattern and Stay There The Avo clitoral stimulator has 3 intensities and 4 patterns, each genuinely different. Some pulse. Some wave. Some feel like they're reading your body. When you go quiet and focused — that's the one. Stay there. The variation keeps your nervous system engaged instead of going numb. You're not just building. You're anticipating.

→ Bring It to Bed With Someone A suction toy like the Avo that fits between two bodies without anyone stopping to reposition. Missionary, doggy, on top — it just works. Hand it to your partner. The wide opening means they don't need to be precise. They can edge you or tip you over whenever they choose. That's its own kind of intimate.

→ Want the Full Story? I wrote the whole experience on Substack — what happened at each intensity, why I went back for a second round, and the part about partnered play that surprised me most.

💋 Read the full Substack review

💋 Watch my full video review.

Annette's Pick: The Hello Nancy Berri🍒

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The Berri teaches you to slow down. The Avo shows up when your body is done being patient.

  • Supercharged air-pulse suction — this toy does not tiptoe
  • Wider oval opening — easier to position solo or between bodies
  • 3 intensities + 4 patterns, one button
  • Fits in every position without interrupting anything
  • Whisper quiet, waterproof, premium silicone
  • 90-minute charge, 90 minutes of play
  • Built for power, quickies, and women who need intensity to get there

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