People are calling this episode the missing link between intention and real pleasure — because it changes how sensation builds instead of how hard you go.
Tools That Actually Support Intentional Pleasure
While the episode will up your technique, the right tools can help your body feel sensation more clearly, make slower touch feel more meaningful, and give you options for both solo and partnered play.
Here are a few of my top picks that pair perfectly with what I teach in the episode:
Le Wand Double Vibe
Dual stimulation, steady sensation
A flexible, dual-arm vibrator that allows for simultaneous breast or nipple stimulation with consistent, controllable vibration.
Perfect for: layered breast and nipple play when you want slower build without constant movement or overstimulation.
A sleek, easy-to-use vibrator that delivers consistent vibration for external play, including breasts, nipples, and other sensitive areas that respond best to slower, sustained sensation.
Perfect for: pairing vibration with intentional touch without overstimulation.
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Until next time— remember, pleasure is your birthright Cheers! Annette 💋
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