You Don’t Need Leather and a Whip to Be a Dom. If the word “dom” makes you picture latex, a riding crop, and someone kneeling on a dungeon floor, you’re missing almost everything. Dominance isn’t one thing. It’s a whole spectrum, and some of the most dominant people you’ll ever meet never raise their voice or pick up a single toy. This week I sat down with Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant, a certified sexologist and former professional dominatrix, to break down every kind of dom. And...

A Dead Bedroom Isn’t the End. It Just Went Quiet. If your sex life has gone quiet, turned into the same thing on repeat, or your partner just shrugs when you ask what they’re into, you don’t need a dramatic overhaul to fix it. You need a plan, and one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. So I built one. A full 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, day by day, inspired by my conversation with certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair (2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year, founder of B-Vibe and...

24 Nights to Rediscover Each Other. This isn't just about a box of toys. It's 24 nights of showing up for each other, discovering what you're into, and growing together one door at a time. Most people think an advent calendar is just a bulk toy purchase with a discount. It's not. It's a structure. The hardest part of exploring together was never the sex, it's the starting. A calendar does that part for you, and starts the conversation every single night. Here's who it's for: Spark gone quiet?...