Most Men Finish Too Fast—Here’s How to Be the Exception Let me guess: you start off strong, things are getting steamy, she’s moaning—and then… it’s over. Fast. Too fast. Whether it’s nerves, lack of control, or excitement, finishing sooner than you’d like isn’t just frustrating—it can make you question your confidence in bed. But here's the truth: You don’t need to last forever. You just need to last long enough to build the kind of tension, and connection that drives her wild. In one of my...

Red, White & Lube Me Up: The Best Sex Toy Sales of the Weekend Sure, fireworks are fun. But you know what gets me hot on a holiday weekend? A damn good sale on sexy toys, products and apparel that actually make me see stars. Whether you're solo, partnered, or playing with your situationship in the sheets, these are the brands I trust when I want explosive pleasure—and they’re all offering deep, dirty discounts right now. Here’s where I’m shopping this weekend (and yes, I’ve linked some of my...

Most People Get Spanking Wrong—Here’s How to Make It Hot Let’s talk about spanking—the kind that makes her arch, gasp, and flinch the next day (with a smile). Most people? Doing it wrong.Too soft. Too hard. Way too awkward. Trust me, I’ve been there:The timid tappers.The over-eager assaulters.The guy who went from zero to ouch so fast I reconsidered my life choices. So, I took matters into my own hands—literally.I studied the technique, the psychology, the science. I practiced.And now I’m...