I’m Floating Off Miami on a Ship Full of 6,000 Adults Who Came to Let Go. Right now I’m on the Bliss Wonderland Cruise, a couples-only, clothing-optional lifestyle cruise that Bliss is billing as one of the largest ever to set sail. 5,802 guests from 47 countries. And I’m living it, writing you a day-by-day diary in real time. Here’s who I’m writing it for: Already in the lifestyle? I’ll tell you honestly how this sailing measures up. Lifestyle-curious? Whispering about non-monogamy, a...

You Don’t Need Leather and a Whip to Be a Dom. If the word “dom” makes you picture latex, a riding crop, and someone kneeling on a dungeon floor, you’re missing almost everything. Dominance isn’t one thing. It’s a whole spectrum, and some of the most dominant people you’ll ever meet never raise their voice or pick up a single toy. This week I sat down with Amanda Dames, aka The Kink Consultant, a certified sexologist and former professional dominatrix, to break down every kind of dom. And...

A Dead Bedroom Isn’t the End. It Just Went Quiet. If your sex life has gone quiet, turned into the same thing on repeat, or your partner just shrugs when you ask what they’re into, you don’t need a dramatic overhaul to fix it. You need a plan, and one small, low-pressure invitation at a time. So I built one. A full 31-day sex challenge to reignite desire, day by day, inspired by my conversation with certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair (2026 XBIZ Sexpert of the Year, founder of B-Vibe and...